By Liz O.

Weddings certainly don’t hold the monopoly on romantic affairs. While weddings celebrate the beginning of a couples’ commitment to one another, anniversary celebrations honor that continued bond. And for that reason, anniversary parties are special to all of us at Pepper’s.

I recently consulted with a couple on their 50th Wedding Anniversary Party. Donna and Tom met when they were just 11 years old. They had their first date at fourteen (they went to a movie), and were married at 20.

Donna and Tom’s real names have been changed for their privacy, but their celebration catering planning isn’t a secret.  Below are a few of the things we discussed during our consultation, which I hope will be helpful if you’re planning or know of someone planning an anniversary party.

Location

For location, think of a place that holds significant meaning to the couple. It could be a special outdoor spot such as the park where he proposed, or even a frequent date spot like a favorite restaurant.  In Donna and Tom’s case, they chose the hall of their church, where they’ve been attending services for years.  It’s the perfect size to accommodate their many friends and family members and it nicely encapsulates the years they’ve spent together.

Menu

Timing is everything. Donna and Tom are holding their party on a Saturday and the event begins at 5:30pm. Because the event begins earlier in the evening, hors d’oeuvres will flow nicely into a buffet meal, an Italian inspired menu selection chosen by the couple. We followed this with a light dessert (no cake, just mini sweets)—the perfect ending.

It’s important to note:  If you’re planning a celebration with cocktails and hors d’oeuvres only it should be noted on the invitation, as the start time of this event assumes dinner would be provided.

Décor

Décor is the “look-and-feel” of your event. Good décor should help shape the mood.  In this case, Donna and Tom wanted the focus to be more on friends and family, and less on fuss and frills. The focus, we decided, should be centered on four main elements: Simple décor, basic linen, terrific food from a gourmet caterer, and the company of their loved ones.

Their adult children will be assisting them with putting together invitations, wedding photo albums and table top decor.  Music will be background only, and set to an ipod play-list of favorites from the year they were married (if you’re supplying music, don’t forget the speakers!).

Pepper’s is all about the details, so naturally the above information is only a snapshot of what we discussed during their consultation.

Remember, you are limited only by your imagination. We’re happy to help guide you along the way to a terrific party!